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Truly, words do not really do this experience justice.
And that is no surprise, as horses do not think in words.
They are beings of feeling, of connection, of energy, of love.
The last few days, I had noticed some odd behaviors. Lacey would come and stand very close to me. Yet when I would try to pet and stroke her, she would pin her ears and leave. Hmm....
I feed my herd at tie stations. Each horse gets a halter and a breakaway tie, so that they can have their unique vitamins and feed. Catching each horse to put on the halter has recently become an adventure. Some are very willing to be haltered, then reluctant to lead. Others refuse the halter altogether.
With hindsight, I see that all of these recent experiences were building toward tonight's lesson.
So, tonight's adventure began with a post from friends and mentors Kim Walnes and Gideon called Gideon On Living With Love. Please take a moment to go read his post on Facebook before continuing with my story.
Gideon and Kim |
So, today I read Gideon's story. And when feeding time came, I decided to try this new approach.
When I entered the field to start catching horses, I stopped first. Found my centered place, prayed, and just filled my heart with love and gratitude for the herd, for life, for all. And I sent a respectful greeting to the herd. The divine in me salutes the divine in you. Both hands were over my heart in a heart hug.
After that greeting, my instinct said start with Lucky. I focused my love on him. Not a "hard" energy or a demanding energy or an energy with an itinerary. Just love and appreciation, with humble confidence, and then a feeling of inquiry "shall we do the halter and go eat?".
Lucky (far left), then Lacey and Bahi (far right) |
Interestingly, Lacey was paying close attention to this exchange, and she walked over and volunteered to wear her halter. Now Lacey is one that has been willing to wear a halter, but then resists being led. Tonight, instead of a tug to insist that she walk with me, I just sent a feeling of love and thanks when she put on her halter, and then focused my intention on us walking to her feeding spot. She calmly stepped forward and walked without any pulling. I hooked her up and send a final wave of thanks and respect, and no touching. No patting, no voice.
I used this same approach with each horse. And every single horse was haltered and led quietly without the drama or resistance and no pulling at all!
Bahi, the shy one, took longer. I just walked to her station and waited for her with love. She took her time processing this new approach, came to me, processed more, and then PUT HER NOSE IN THE HALTER! This is the mare that is super reluctant about any tack or tool.
Left to right: Niya, Malenna, Sugar and Salty |
Salty on the left, and Mr T on the right |
What an amazing lesson!
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Carrie, this is AWESOME! So very many horses are asking for this these days. So happy that Gid's Message helped...you're so good at being in a state of Love....Yay!
ReplyDeleteThank you Kim and Gid. The lesson appears when the student is ready. What a lovely new dance!
DeleteOh, and I LOVE the title!
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